The Art of Erotic Living

Living an erotic life is a choice.

It’s like deciding if we want to be fit, a boss babe, a devoted mother, wife or friend.

We can’t just hope that we’ll feel sexy and “in the mood”... it has to be desired, cultivated, nurtured and valued.

It needs to be one of those feelings so inherent and honored in our cells, that we make choices based on how we can light the fire.

And deep, hot, soulful sex is a part of it, but not all of it.

What are we reading, eating, listening to, telling ourselves, watching, drinking, writing, painting?

Does it turn us on to LIFE?

Discover the things that do.

And choose them over and over again.

Everything is a choice. ⠀⠀

Constance Jablonski by Fabien Baron

Constance Jablonski by Fabien Baron

Uranus in Taurus


The Finish Line is an Illusion.

Saying yes.

Saying no.

New lingerie.

Sex for lunch. Chocolate for lunch. Champagne for lunch.

Barefoot in the grass. Skinny dipping.

Laughter is the new currency. Delight is worth a million bucks.

Leaving the laundry pile behind.

Buying roses for yourself.

Making "to do" lists that prioritize pleasure.

Running off into the sunset.

Coming home to kiss your lover.

Saying thank you to your body.

She’s been with you since the beginning....

Miranda Kerr by Sebastian Faena

Miranda Kerr by Sebastian Faena

Taurus Party Season

Are you ready for your “next?!?” It’s time people. We have been in the midst of huge shifts and transformations for what seems like ages now! We have been moving mountains! 

What do you love? Who do you love? How do you like to be embodied? There is a cosmic party in Taurus right now, and we are remembering what feels the most delicious! It’s an individual thing! And there is no wrong answer. 

What do you value? How do you value yourself? Is your self worth based on anything that you could let go of? Have you been having a conversation with your body that is not very kind? If so, let it go! 

Mercury moved into Taurus yesterday, the new moon is in Taurus tomorrow, and Uranus, the planet of liberation and reinvention moves into Taurus tomorrow as well. What does being human mean to you? How can you enjoy this experience with the utmost joy and pleasure? 

Over the next seven years we will be exploring this for ourselves! Have fun with it! It’s about fucking time for more fun!! 

Photo by Lachlan Bailey.

Photo by Lachlan Bailey.

Venus in Aries

The Essence:  
Amazonian Goddess. Warrioress. Champion.  Artemis. 
Individuality. Going for “the gold”. Risk taking.  Loves fire.  Candles.
Enjoys a good tousle. Freedom, expansiveness. Red panties.
Impressed by someone who can hustle. Quickies.  Cinnamon. 

The Challenge:  
Quick to start relationships or creative projects.
Quick to end them.

Transcend And Include the challenge for the Ultimate Venusian Vibe!


Venusian Vibes

Venus is the planet of love, beauty, sexuality and creativity.
Her energy influences what we love, how we love, and how we express ourselves sexually, sensually and creatively.

Venus will be traveling through the Pleiades April 23-25th.
You can see Venus early in the evening in the West during this time. 

The Pleiades are all about creativity, love and joy.

This is a beautiful opportunity to connect with your Venusian essence,
and activate more fabulousness in your life!

Both men and women experience Venus as an energetic influence
in our bodies, personalities and self-expression. For men,
Venus represents the imprint of the eternal feminine.
She shows the kind of woman he is attracted to, and also
influences his aesthetic taste.

For a woman, Venus describes her feminine essence.
Where her desires lie, how she loves to love, and how she wishes
to be desired and appreciated!

I love to flow with my language,
so these descriptions can be pondered and adjusted
to your unique contemplation and life experience. Have fun with it!

Venus is fun!

Let the beauty of the words activate the divine spark within you!

My suggestion is to contemplate the
essence 90%, and give 10% to the challenge. 
Transcend and Integrate the challenge to experience the
fullness of your lusciousness!



The Essence:  
Amazonian Goddess. Warrioress. Champion.  Artemis. 
Individuality. Going for “the gold”. Risk taking.  Loves fire.  Candles.
Enjoys a good tousle. Freedom, expansiveness. Red panties.
Impressed by someone who can hustle. Quickies.  Cinnamon. 

The Challenge:  
Quick to start relationships or creative projects.
Quick to end them.


The Essence:  
Big hair, big heart. Shiny.  Courageous. 
Loves to be adored, admired and honored.  King of the beasts. 
Queen of their domain.  Creative and self-expressive.  Passionate lovers. 
Modern art, graffiti and gold.  Evokes majesty. 

The Challenge:
Pride can overwhelm the heart.


The Essence:  
Passionate lover, free spirit, philosopher of life. 
Loves parties, costumes, travel.  Fabulously flirtatious. 
Freedom is her muse. 

The Challenge:  
The grass is always greener.  Commitment can feel like a cage.




The Essence:  
Loves to talk. Spoken word, poetry. Friends.
Never ending new ideas.  Laughter is the language of the heart.
Exploring the light. And the dark.  Never boring, always the trickster.
Loves a good question.  Books, sketching, plays and theater. 
Let them mingle.  Always ask, don’t guess. 

The Challenge: 


The Essence:  
Aphrodite in human form.  Marriage, partnerships, relationships. 
Romance, secret rendezvous, desert escapes.  Dew on fairy dusted flowers. 
Equality, fairness and justice for all.  Jewels.  Fresh air. 
Enticing conversations, lingering lunches.  Meandering, hand holding,
kisses that taste like the clouds joined the sea. 

The Challenge:  
Trying to please everyone.  


The Essence:  
Freedom. Friends as lovers, lovers as friends. 
Music Festivals, sleepovers, lux picnics.  Hike all day, dance all night. 
Love being a part of community.  Have all the fun. 
Martini’s, skinny jeans and leather jackets. 

The Challenge:  
Detaching from feelings and/or too much “group” think.




The Essence:  
Loves the home they create. 
Family, security, cuddles, snuggles, and a damn good love letter. 
The roots run deep, emotions span decades, lifetimes and universes. 
Tears are medicine.  Objects are nostalgic.  Will nurture everyone. 
Their wombs create worlds upon worlds of magic. 

The Challenge: 
Nurturing others before themselves.


The Essence:  
Love potions.  Deep and delicious fucking. 
Merging with God, money and sex.  It’s all the same. 
The Phoenix From The Ashes.  Mysterious, elusive and powerful. 
Always changing. Every evolving.

The Challenge: 


The Essence:  
Universal love.  Deeply empathic. 
A desire to merge with a lover, another, art, the experience. 
Channeling the cosmos is a full time job.  Neptunian. Absinthe. 
Loves glamour. Sparkle. Downloads. Upgrades.  Ecstasy. 
Otherworldly love.  Off- planet fantasies.  Loves to be fucked to God. 

The Challenge: 
Loss of self in the “other”.  




The Essence:  
Lover of the senses. Tasting the chocolate,
luxuriating in the flesh, intoxicating scents, The View of The Garden,
the sound of the drums.  Feet on the ground.  Earth Mother Goddess. 
Hathor, the Eqyptian Goddess of pleasure.  Honey.  Bees. 
Queen or King of pleasure, sensuality and lusciousness. 

The Challenge:  


The Essence:  
Rituals. Self love. Worship of The Divine In All Things. 
Healing ceremonies. Retreats. Journaling. Art that heals. 
Waiting for “the one”.  The Goddess Who Belongs To Herself. 
Alchemy.  Details.  Structure.  Loves a plan.  When it’s right, it’s on. 

The Challenge: 
Releasing the Chastity belt, having a love affair with pleasure.  


The Essence:  
Cosmic Luxury.  Loves being a Boss. Or a Boss Babe. 
Adores being admired for success.  Brings the highest light into
concrete reality form.  Refined and exquisite taste. 
Fine art, classical music and deep red wine.  Caviar, champagne
and black roses.  The smell of leather and money…intoxicating. 
The vibe: Pleiades meets Versailles. 

The Challenge:  
Prestige dominating the wisdom of the heart.  

Image by Ben Hassett

Image by Ben Hassett

Do You.

There is no "right" way to live life.

There is no "right" spiritual path.

We don't need to eat this

Or not drink that

Or wear this

Or not that

Or mediate for hours

Or cleanse, clear and obsess about 


Or wear this crystal

Or not.

Or banish sexiness

Sensuality and

Pleasure from our lives.

We only need to say YES

To what lights us up.

And NO 

To what isn't a fit.

Boundaries are really just

Honoring what we love,

How we love.

Being fully embodied

Celebrating this gift

Of life.

Our Higher Selves are

Cosmic Unicorns

Waiting to run free.

It's time to play.

Willow x


Venus In Pisces

Venus on my body

heart trapped in armor

one by one

I surrender

to the tidal wave

Joan of Ark

belly of a dragon

life of a sniper

self flagellation

passort stamped

intergalactic spy

healing waters

bring it all

mermaid tail

its over.

trade in my passport

intergalactic lover

Jesus and Mary Magdalene

enter my heart

I ask to be shown

I expect a journey

they say, "go in".

and in 

and deeper 


Willow x




It is impossible

to capture the full majesty

of the night sky

to hold it in my hands

and force it through my brush


for me to connect you

to what you so desire

but I am willing....

to let the magic flow

through me, in me

all around me

I cry

because I will never get it


But I paint anyway

paint anyway


maybe what I paint will inspire you

to go outside

and look up

and remember

who you are.


Willow x



Scorpio Moon

Last night the new moon was in Scorpio.

Death. Rebirth. Transformation.

The Pheonix from the ashes.

I slept.

I dreamed.

I was down in the office.

Where TC never was.

Yet he is there.

I saw his bike shoes.

I was guided to smell them.

To remember.

And then it was not a dream.

I felt a portal opening up.

My whole body vibrating.

Cosmic orgasm.

I knew it would only become more intense.

But I also knew TC wanted me to meet him.

I needed to meet him.

I let myself go.

Engulfed in ecstasy.

Down down down.

Like Alice.

Through the tunnel of light.

Into the center of Patcha Mama.

I see TC on the left.

In a purple world of his own creation.

I stop. He is so excited.

So joyful.

So high on vibes.

"Hi Willow!, Doesn't this feel amazing!?!"

I agree.

And then I listen.

He told me that his light body is one with the earth.

Helping to raise the vibration.

He said many are helping this way.

Deep in the core crystal.

Healing from the inside out.

We hug.

Light body hugs feel different.

But the same.

I started to realize that I needed to return.

Because I still wanted to feel.

All the feels.

In my body.

I love ecstasy

But I am still called to be 

On the ground.

Receiving messages

From the other side

It's all love.

There is nothing to fear.

We will never die.

It's time to really truly


Willow x


Your Pussy.

Is psychic



She may have been


Or cursed

With black magic


By jealous lovers








Write One Thing

Say One Thing

Paint One Thing

Allow yourself to be

Fucked by God

Or make love

You can't do it wrong

You are pure

You are magestic

You always were

You will always be

Do It

Your WAY


Willow x





It was fucking intense.

My stepson died one year ago.

The little me needs...



How long can I be a rock?

For my husband.

My daughters. 

For Myself.

I see 11:11.



I am not looking.

But the signs are there.

On the right track.

My neuroses merging into my husband's.

We are not kids any more.

It's time to shift this shit.

Addicted to trauma.

Without a problem, who can relate?


Take a salt bath.

Light a candle.

Play a song that clears my cells.

I take the cross off my back.

It is finished.

And so it is.

Willow x


Just BE You.

You are the only you.

This is true.

Let it sink in.


Into your cells.

Into the essence of YOU.

If you are the only you, what would YOU do?

The YOU that can be whatever you want to be.

BE that.

Express that.

Don't hold back.

There is no good or bad way to express yourself.

Whatever is aligned with YOU is 


Your secret sauce is the magic.

The magic is your secret sauce.

Don't hold back.

You can not be too much.

You can not be too little.

When you are authentic in your joy

The world shifts a little bit more

Into light.

Willow x